Things to book:

Church (Complete)
Reception Venue (Complete)
Linen rental/ceiling drapery (Complete)
Photo Guest Book Service (Complete)
Baker for sheet cakes (Complete)
Day-of-Coordinator (Complete)
Make-up artist (Complete)
Hairstylist (Complete)
DJ (Complete)
Florist (Complete)
Day-of Transportation (Complete)
Rehearsal Dinner Take out 

Things to decide:

Budget (Set and already over)
Date (Complete)
Guest List (Complete)
Bridal Party (Complete)
Color Scheme (Complete)
Wedding Cake Design 
Bouquets (Complete)
Centerpieces (Complete)
Reception Decorations (Complete)
Ceremony Decorations (Complete)
Readers (Complete)
Ceremony Readings and Script (Complete)
Ceremony Music (Complete)
Formal Dances Music (First Dance, Father/Daughter, Mother/Groom) 
Wedding Day Timeline 
Something Old, New, Borrowed & Blue 
Photography Locations

Things to order:

My Accessories (Complete)
Bridesmaid Dresses (Complete) 
Jr Bridesmaids Dress (Complete)
Flower girl's dresses (Complete)
Tuxedos (Complete)
Wedding Bands (Complete)
Favors (Planned, but not done yet)
Bridesmaid's Gifts (Complete)
Groomsmen's Gifts (Complete)

Things to do:

Register for Gifts (Complete)
Finalize the guest list (Complete)
Fold pocket invitations (Complete)
Print and Assemble Invitations (Complete)
Buy postage for save-the-dates (Complete)
Buy postage for Invitations (Complete)
Block Hotel Rooms (Complete)
Pick up food to test for menu options (Complete)
Have Engagement Photos Taken (Complete)
Find out which Engagement Photos Family Members Want Printed (Complete)
Schedule and Attend Dress Fittings with Lou (Complete)
Schedule Hair & Make-Up Trials (Complete)
Write Thank-You Notes for Iowa Shower (Complete)
Plan Rehearsal Dinner (Complete)
Finalize Menu and Service Details (Complete)
Confirm Reservations for Out-of-Town Guests
Apply for Marriage License 

Write Thank-You Notes for Minnesota Shower
Make List of Must-Play (and Must-Not Play) for DJ
Make List of Must-Take Pictures for Photographer 
Make Honeymoon Reservations?
Make Seating Plan 
Wrap Bridal Party Gifts 
Change of Name Paperwork 
Prepare Toasts or Thanks to Guests 
Give Wedding-Day Directions, Schedule and Contact List to Parents, Bridal Party and Vendors
Assemble and Distribute OOT Bags 
Give Final Head-Count to Venue
Confirm Final Payment Amounts with Vendors  
Confirm Location, Date and Time with Photographer 
Confirm Date, Location, Time and Playlist with DJ 
Confirm Date, Location, Time and Playlist with Day-of Transportation
Pack Bags for Honeymoon 
Rehearse Ceremony 
Drop Off Required Materials to Venue 
Write Thank-You Notes for Wedding 

Things to send:

Save-the-dates (Complete)
Invites (Complete)
Rehearsal Dinner Invites
Thank-You Notes for Iowa Shower (Complete)
Thank-You Notes for MN Shower
Thank-You Notes for Wedding